Monday, October 25, 2021

Y Program Reinvents Etiquette in the Modern Age

Being polite doesn’t take a whole lot of effort, but old school manners seem to have fallen a bit by the wayside in today’s tech-dominated world.

Life Coach Pam Huckle Wood wants to reboot etiquette among the younger generation, and she recently devised a special social skills program to help her achieve just that.

She’ll be bringing the program to the South Collier YMCA (the Marco Y) early September, and will present it separately to K to 2nd Grade students, 3rd to 5th graders and also to 6th to 8th grade students.

“It’s about respect and dignity,” says Huckle Wood, whose eight-week program incorporates how to greet people, saying please and thank you (tact), accepting the word “No,” protocol at social gatherings like parties, communication, table manners and technology (with its sinister off-shoot of bullying).

Table etiquette, says Huckle Wood, is significant in the overall program because families these days tend to sit down less together.

“It’s understandable,” she says of this hard fact, “but something needs to change. This (right down to setting tables correctly) will help to enhance skills and communication.”

To make her classes interesting, Huckle Wood favors props, such as in the “sharing” (including gift giving) segment.

“I bring in a wrapped gift, ask somebody to read the card, somebody to open the box,” she says. “I usually put Rice Krispy treats inside, and have the children share them.”

The actions, Huckle Wood says, have the deeper significance of making children process the logic of what they’re doing.

Huckle Wood, a mom and grand mom, doesn’t profess to know exactly how today’s younger generation ticks, but says she gained insight by interviewing dozens of people from all walks of life.

A former Boston-based corporate executive, Huckle Wood became bored after retiring and moving here, so she decided to become a certified life coach.

The notion of focusing on youth came after a parent asked her if she had any programs for children.

“The parent said she wanted to enhance her children’s social skills,” Huckle Wood says.

After another similar query, Huckle Wood devised the program, which she also describes as “a gift that will last them a lifetime,” adding that her goal is to “end up with a kinder, happier and more caring world.”

For information on the upcoming program (groups are limited to 12 per age group), call the Y at 394-3144.

For more on the Y’s wide variety of programs and activities for adults and children, visit or call 394-YMCA (9622). Follow on Twitter at ymcamarco; on Facebook @marcoymca, and Instagram at ymcamarco.

2 responses to “Y Program Reinvents Etiquette in the Modern Age”

  1. Joseph T huckle says:

    I’m so happy to see this program coming to fruition, i cannot imagine of a better to to instruct young people these most important skills and I should know..great Job Mom💜

  2. Rivka Mascoop says:

    What a fantastic idea! This opportunity is such a gift to not only to the young students but to their parents and our entire community as well! The kids are even more fortunate to have Pam Huckle as their guide!

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